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So... time for a new post.

You know there are some things that you kind of always knew about your ex-boyfriends but you never really were able to confirm your instincts. Well, last night I had a case of confirmation.

My last boyfriend, was kind of a nasty, sleazy whore and I knew this going in to the relationship. I mean, I was the home wrecker in the situation busting up his engagement to someone. However, I did really like this guy and we got along very well for a very long time. I feel ok saying this, but I really did love him.

Last night I am having dinner with a family member and she tells me she never liked him, basically because he hit on her while we were going out and then after we broke up he said something to the effect of, "So, now you're cousin and I are not dating, when are we gonna have sex?" These are all things that I did not know about while the two of us were together, but I had a feeling, but then this information was made privy to me last night.

I mean, I thought the news would make me very upset or angry or depressed, but in all honesty, I kind of didn't care. I mean, it's been a while since the relationship and I am pretty content with the way my life is going. I think I finally realized that I am and I was the better person in the relationship and that trashy information solidified that feeling for me. Maybe this doesn't make much sense, but I think having that piece of information has given me a piece of mind I never had as far as the break-up in concerned.

People and relationships can be ugly and mean and nasty, but I must admit, it feels really good to know that you're the bigger person.

I know this all sounds very Hallmark Card-esque, but sometimes that's just the way it goes.

OK girls... off with you, go out with your content heads held high.